tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post2559881348423050488..comments2023-10-30T06:46:11.502-05:00Comments on noodleroux: Working girl.Becky Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08351322716749475996noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-6580100102285949102008-11-10T20:11:00.000-06:002008-11-10T20:11:00.000-06:00Just to say hang in there - warm wishes for happin...Just to say hang in there - warm wishes for happiness from the south of France.<BR/>Plus - I've just read your profile and discovered that I'm not the only Barry Manilow and Neil Diamond fan under the age of 60 on this planet! Your taste in music ROCKS!<BR/>For your sadness, I would recommend watching Neil Diamond's "The Jazz Singer" (if nothing else for Laurence Olivier's horrible Jewish-NYC accent!). Oh, the tears will flow, but it's SO worth it!Magic27https://www.blogger.com/profile/08701211538213404730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-88732392331603911102008-11-10T08:53:00.000-06:002008-11-10T08:53:00.000-06:00By way of Mrs. G - hang in there, and keep your ch...By way of Mrs. G - hang in there, and keep your chin up! <BR/>Make plans, do things, enjoy what you enjoy - BE SELFISH! Roll in it - wallow in it - eat it - drink it - sleep in it! It is okay to feel every thing you do. And there is not a set time-frame to get over it. We all have lost loves that remain in our hearts. That reminds us that we have them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-32116447935983856032008-11-10T00:40:00.000-06:002008-11-10T00:40:00.000-06:00I'm sent by Mrs. G, who is the loveliest of loveli...I'm sent by Mrs. G, who is the loveliest of lovelies - as I know you must be for moving her to write about you.<BR/><BR/>Keep writing. See girlfriends. Eat decadent foods. Drink cocktails. Talk infinitely. Write more. And try something new in your life. Maybe a writing course? A pottery class? <BR/><BR/>Sending good thoughts.JCKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04582581376724478366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-34899090192468397102008-11-09T20:29:00.000-06:002008-11-09T20:29:00.000-06:00Hello, by way of Derfwad Manor...after my divorce ...Hello, by way of Derfwad Manor...after my divorce I read "A Country Year" by Sue Hubbell about HER divorce and listened to music by Eddie Daniels. In fact, I've have to try that therapy more than once since then. Just keep breathing and putting one foot in front of the other and one day, without thinking about it, you'll look around and find yourself far from this painful day. I promise.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15238905633085051322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-63371174496590109162008-11-09T19:02:00.000-06:002008-11-09T19:02:00.000-06:00There's a particular type of loneliness that feels...There's a particular type of loneliness that feels right<BR/><BR/>I don't know whether you're there. I hope so. I hope being alone, and introspective, makes you happier and progressively more whole until you can call him "The Idiot Who Dumped ME" instead of mr. wonderful. <BR/><BR/>P.S. Mrs. G sent me too.Mirihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03924043596033516959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-76531221448563663342008-11-09T17:59:00.000-06:002008-11-09T17:59:00.000-06:00hello gorgeous, (hopped over from mrs.g's too)love...hello gorgeous, <BR/>(hopped over from mrs.g's too)<BR/>love your blog title! <BR/>i'm so sorry that you are going through all this. and i'm so sorry that i have no helpful words for you (cos i'm still with the first man i loved) but i am guessing Bridget Jones and huge amounts of Tip Top Cookies and Cream icecream - it's a New Zealand thang - probably stolen from the USofA - would be a little bit helpful....<BR/>or maybe a luffly long run on the beach??<BR/>i make stuff when i'm feeling naff.<BR/><BR/>anyway, much love and sunshine to you,<BR/>katie Xskatey katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05586048408864521948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-35252711457052616462008-11-09T15:08:00.000-06:002008-11-09T15:08:00.000-06:00Found you, too from MRs. G and am going through a ...Found you, too from MRs. G and am going through a long divorce which will HOPEFULLY be over this Friday. But I am reaching out to you to say YOU DO MATTER and you DO ROCK. and the loneliness will pass for moments at a time and then sneak up on you like a nasty bully in the dark. And at that moment you reach back to your bloggy buddies and know that YOU DO MATTER and YOU DO ROCK. Keep the faith...The Girl Next Doorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08106281074589247494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-35652551059550982582008-11-09T13:00:00.000-06:002008-11-09T13:00:00.000-06:00OMG, YOU SERIOUSLY MUST GO TO THIS SITE:http://www...OMG, YOU SERIOUSLY MUST GO TO THIS SITE:<BR/><BR/>http://www.poopsenders.com/<BR/><BR/>Let me know how that works out because I have some serious vendettas and heartache that I think can be solved with a little gorilla dung.<BR/><BR/>PS - This is why Mrs. G keeps me around.Very Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16115661324301117031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-77368241893543215442008-11-09T11:29:00.000-06:002008-11-09T11:29:00.000-06:00Sweetie - the Matron has been so busy she hasn't b...Sweetie - the Matron has been so busy she hasn't been out much, so she didn't know. Hang in there. Better to be alone than in the wrong relationship! I've been there, too. Sometimes all we need is time and the knowledge that good friends stick around.Minnesota Matronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16565431067927240183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-55040902332492160982008-11-09T10:42:00.000-06:002008-11-09T10:42:00.000-06:00Massimo? I like.Over from Mrs. G's and sighing a s...Massimo? I like.<BR/><BR/>Over from Mrs. G's and sighing a sad sigh with you.<BR/><BR/>If I knew you better, I'd say this too will pass.<BR/><BR/>Instead, I am just hoping the sadness lifts soon.Lisa Wheeler Miltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07386193798727387546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-55103071575384410932008-11-09T10:41:00.000-06:002008-11-09T10:41:00.000-06:00Oh Cha Cha I'm so sorry. I think you need to go fi...Oh Cha Cha I'm so sorry. I think you need to go find a lovely Massimo to flirt with. I know it's hard to move on.Mommy2Twinkies-Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10621411925358532925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-24616618253645454222008-11-09T10:40:00.000-06:002008-11-09T10:40:00.000-06:00Hi, I walked over from Mrs G's place... I wanted t...Hi, I walked over from Mrs G's place... I wanted to just give a {{{hug}}}. Your heart will be lighter soon. Take care ;o)LaDue & Crewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16379105459474039116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-88595826564086283922008-11-09T09:44:00.000-06:002008-11-09T09:44:00.000-06:00Very smart to keep yourself from turning to work a...Very smart to keep yourself from turning to work as a replacement. It only helps short-term. <BR/><BR/>After a bad breakup of my own, I started being a wicked overachiever. It went on for probably two months, while I was getting my head straight. But by the time I started to feel less isolated, my boss had become used to me working 70 hours a week. <BR/><BR/>When I started to slow down and get back in touch with my life, and scaled work back to about 50 hours per week, I got a lot of negative attention of the "You just don't seem very committed" sort. <BR/><BR/>I ended up having to leave my job, because I'd raised expectations way beyond reality. <BR/><BR/>Keep your chin up. You have people cheering for you. Perfect strangers, even!CraftRagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16192831794446148405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-47859368798224571392008-11-09T08:04:00.000-06:002008-11-09T08:04:00.000-06:00I'm over here from Mrs. G's as well...I'd highly r...I'm over here from Mrs. G's as well...<BR/><BR/>I'd highly recommend getting an audio book (Evening Star was mine) and listening to it while you go for long walks - at least 45 at a stretch. I think the audio book is 13 or 14 hours long, it's filled with good characters and smooth words. It keeps your interest enough to keep you moving, and moving each day until it's done. It's distracting and enjoyable at the same time. And before you know it, you're feeling stronger and taking deeper breaths.<BR/><BR/>it worked for me.jenniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07788324018399041539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-64496081585982781532008-11-09T07:19:00.000-06:002008-11-09T07:19:00.000-06:00Found you through Mrs. G. My suggestion - let your...Found you through Mrs. G. My suggestion - let yourself mourn but don't lose sight of the big picture. You are awesome and worth better than he could offer. Don't doubt it. <BR/><BR/>Lots of great suggestions for you on Mrs. G's post.you gotta wonderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17185948145655907204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-59933587662056040072008-11-09T06:54:00.000-06:002008-11-09T06:54:00.000-06:00Via Mrs G's(((hugs))) Nothing gets me through thes...Via Mrs G's<BR/><BR/>(((hugs)))<BR/> Nothing gets me through these times better that g'friends / sisters ... ice cream and living/looking good. <BR/><BR/>The looking good DOES help you but mostly it's the sweet revenge when he sees you again.Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12525149264536202592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-22985129284080851442008-11-09T06:53:00.000-06:002008-11-09T06:53:00.000-06:00Hi Cha Cha... I feel for you, I really do. What I ...Hi Cha Cha... I feel for you, I really do. What I can say is is this: even though I'm old enough and experienced enough to know that we all survive heartbreak, even though it's hard to imagine, it never seems to hurt any less.<BR/><BR/>My advice is: take one day at a time. In time, the hurt will ease. Be gentle with yourself... give yourself some real breaks to be human, vulnerable... don't beat up on yourself, and spoil yourself as much as possible.Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03436539725605367511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-8898028439727421302008-11-09T03:01:00.000-06:002008-11-09T03:01:00.000-06:00I'm here from Mrs G too....we all feel your pain, ...I'm here from Mrs G too....<BR/><BR/>we all feel your pain, we've all been there - it is bloody awful ....<BR/><BR/>Little steps. little steps.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08578720378832806483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-59166884992491278302008-11-09T02:30:00.000-06:002008-11-09T02:30:00.000-06:00Just over from Mrs. G's place.What you need is...Just over from Mrs. G's place.<BR/><BR/>What you need is a little Bridget Jones Diary (1&2) Make ya laugh, make ya cry. Make ya feel better about life in general.<BR/><BR/>Wish I had fabulous words of wisdom but all I can think of is 'this too shall pass'.<BR/><BR/>Keep your chin up sister! And keep writing!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06027862831421242012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-61915896838183233962008-11-09T02:07:00.000-06:002008-11-09T02:07:00.000-06:00I have felt like that. I hope you will be patient ...I have felt like that. I hope you will be patient with yourself. Eventually, you'll get used to feeling the way you do. The change you have gone through will start to feel normal. Then with even more time, you can feel happy again.<BR/>I wish you well.Beverlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13543690962370750842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-66256467868577624062008-10-30T11:38:00.000-05:002008-10-30T11:38:00.000-05:00I think a tattoo artist is a great idea for a cost...I think a tattoo artist is a great idea for a costume! That's funny!Saucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16959141177904095053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-17746275477013815872008-10-29T23:25:00.000-05:002008-10-29T23:25:00.000-05:00Does Mr. Wonderful read this blog? Because if so, ...Does Mr. Wonderful read this blog? Because if so, I think you should start posting about that handsome Italian guy you shagged over the weekend. Remember? I think you said his name was Massimo?<BR/><BR/>Keep writing. It will keep you sane.Mrs. G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01171997573144385692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-64805817510015862772008-10-29T23:05:00.000-05:002008-10-29T23:05:00.000-05:00Cha Cha, please don't think any emotion you have i...Cha Cha, please don't think any emotion you have isn't a valid one. It's okay to be sad, to be lonely, to grieve the end of this relationship with Mr-Used-To-Be-Wonderful and his Ladybug. Keep writing -- it'll help and the folks who read your blog care about you.Sister Threehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05472947838012391783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-79690917968927182552008-10-29T21:15:00.000-05:002008-10-29T21:15:00.000-05:00oh the lonely is so hard. keep posting ok? keep g...oh the lonely is so hard. keep posting ok? keep going to work. one day at a time... you will start to feel better. but it takes forever. just forever.Madgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14905740781186585499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301586145140787353.post-4662720584482588532008-10-29T21:14:00.000-05:002008-10-29T21:14:00.000-05:00I remember that type of loneliness well. Work wil...I remember that type of loneliness well. <BR/><BR/>Work will help take your mind off and writing about it helps too.<BR/><BR/>Keep writing, we'll be here to listen.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00596416561362483550noreply@blogger.com