Tuesday, August 6, 2013

How to fail miserably as an adult.

I recently hung out with my favorite soon-to-be 2nd grade twins. They are all about animals and trivia and whatnot.

The boy looked at me very seriously. "You're a grown-up, so you probably know this," he said. "But did you know that the harpy eagle has talons that are longer than a bear's claws?"

Uh, no. No, I didn't know that. My young friend was both delighted at his own intelligence and shocked at my ineptitude. He was too nice to say so, but clearly, I am shitty at being an adult.

I kind of want to start every single sentence with, "You're a grown-up, so you probably know this." It would be so awesome! Just think: "You're a grown-up, so you probably already know this, but when you don't put your dishes in the dishwasher, it makes the baby Jesus cry." Or even, "You're a grown-up, so you probably already know this, but the labradoodle ate poop today."

Like being an adult is a form of omniscience. But as a kid, that's totally what being a grown-up was all about! Those tall people knew everything! And yet, they managed to be pretty dull.

I noticed that my kid friends were reading a Beverly Cleary book. In an effort not to be the dullard adult, I mentioned that I, too, was reading a Beverly Cleary book: the second of her autobiographies. The first book is about her childhood, and the second covers college through getting her first book published.

Instead of being heralded as a literary genius, I faced contempt.

"Eww! The school one is probably way better. College and being a grown-up is so boring!"

So, that's probably a healthy attitude for a 2nd grader. But Beverly Cleary's autobiographies - A Girl From Yamhill and My Own Two Feet - are equally enthralling.

Plus, if we're being honest?

I devoured all of Mrs. Cleary's books as a kid, and finding these books aimed at adults was a thrill. I thought I'd read all the Cleary that's there to be read, but I was mistaken! She wrote these 2 lovely little autobiographies for me to find as an inept adult.

Mrs. Cleary is 97 years old. I bet she knew all about the harpy eagle's talons.

As a youngun', my favorite books were those about Ramona - Ramona the Pest, Ramona Quimby, Age 8. The publication of Ramona Forever was the first time I ever anticipated a new book. I could hardly stand it until that light-blue paperback was available. Instead of going to the library, we bought it. It was a big deal. I tore through that book.

I don't know crap about the harpy eagle, but I do love to read. And I think Mrs. Cleary helped me there, for sure.

What was your favorite Beverly Cleary book? And did you know about the harpy eagle?

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10 comments:

smalltownme said...

I love second graders, but I did not know about the harpy eagle. Did you know that popcorn pops because there is a tiny bit of water inside the kernel which explodes when it gets heated? My son taught me that when he was only FOUR! I loved Beverly Cleary and read every book of hers that was in the school library. This was many years ago so I have missed quite a few.

Jenny Hart Boren said...

You're a grown-up, so you probably know this, but I just love your blog and I feel all cheery when I see a new post.

I also love Beverly Cleary's books, especially all the Ramona stories.

Wendy said...

Wow.... I'm totally, sort-of, a grown up, and I here I am, CLUELESS about the harpy eagle. Oh, how I loved Ramona, Beezus, Henry and Ribsy though. Good stuff... very good stuff.

cookingwithgas said...

I am not just a not smart grown up but I am working on being the not so smart grand ma as well.
You can date me by my books....
Nancy drew
The boxcar kids and, good Lord, the Bobby twins.
I know, I know.
I wanted that pony skirt,scarf,flowing smart hair.
And, I did not know about the eagle.

Cyndi B. said...

I am getting those autobiographies TODAY...thanks for the link.

I loved all her books, but Ellen Tebbits was my favorite when I was a kid. I could relate to her. Once I had kids, Ramona became my favorite. Let's just say I felt like Ramona's mom.

Rainbow Motel said...

I love "A Girl from Yamhill"!!! Beverly Cleary's books always make me feel safe and happy. I have to re-read "Ramona the Pest" at the beginning of every school year.

Becky said...

Being a grown up is totally over rated.

Ramona all the way.

I did not know about the harpy eagle. See? Being a grown up is definitely not all it's cracked up to be.

Cha Cha said...

I had no idea about the popcorn! I don't know whether to be thrilled or embarrassed.

Cha Cha said...

I will now be smiling non-stop for the next week!

Green Girl in Wisconsin said...

Henry and Beezus simply because it was the first one I ever read by her and I was hooked--but I loved them ALL and had NO idea she wrote a bio!!!
When little kids talk like that it just makes my heart feel full.

p.s. I have a stuffed dog from childhood named Ribsy.